When, in their prayer, one asks that no misfortune, no pain and no loss diminish the love of God, their soul becomes cleaner. [...]

How do we learn to love?
If the feelings of love and joy have emerged in your soul, try to keep them alive as much as possible. If there is offence and judgment in your soul, then try to remove them as soon as possible. [...]

The main goal is to keep the love for God, even when everything in our life is collapsing. In everything that happens, we must see the divine will. Don't look for the guilt in others. Don't blame others or yourself. In a lover or life partner, let's notice and love their divine spark, their divine potential and becoming, first and foremost, and only later the human side, that in everything and always we should notice and love the divine, let's keep and multiply the quantity of love for God, no matter what happens.

Source:
S N Lazarev
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