After her son was hospitalized, she came to me and begged me to save her son. I explained to her that the impossibility of controlling one's sexual desires generated dependence on other desires. The problems in our sexual sphere reach the external plane and one becomes a worthy, hardworking man, another is passionate about gambling, the third starts drinking, the fourth becomes a pathological miser, etc. I also explained to her that she had to accept any upset from a man as a rescue for her son. She needs to change her attitude towards sex. Sex is not a source of pleasure but a means of conceiving children. The source of delight is love. The miser makes it dependent on money, the arrogant on his superiority over others and almost all make it dependent to sex. Love is the greatest force in the Universe. That is why love must be directed, first of all, to God, and if we direct it only to human happiness, it bursts like a soap bubble, together with health and life. When we direct love only to our loved one, he strikes us and behaves badly with us in order to survive. And if we get upset with our partner, then we work harder to kill him. You must not be upset with your son anymore. The best help for him is for you to work on yourself. Jealousy, anger, depression until your pregnancy with him make him deadly addicted to desires and he becomes their slave. It doesn't matter what kind of desires they are: sensual, sexual, spiritual or material. The reproaches can't save him. His salvation is first and foremost the love of God and his own change. The patient understood and began to pray. A few days later, the doctors told her that a miracle had happened. Her son recovered and was discharged very soon. She had to keep working on herself, but her habits proved to be stronger. She began to resent her son again and reproach him. She finally decided to go to a psychologist and hypnotists to stop him from gambling. I warned her that it was not a good idea, that everything could end badly for her son. She did not want to listen to me and destiny did otherwise. A few months later, my patient had hemorrhoids. The operation was successful and the physical problems were solved. She was diagnosed with colon cancer half a year later. She underwent surgery again, this time successfully as well. After a while, the cancer metastasized. She had another operation in a year, and died two years later. One and the same upset can cause colds, then, say, bronchitis, and if it lasts longer it can cause a much more serious illness. The stronger the anger, the more serious the consequences. Cancer is usually a very serious crime against love. Diabetes and cardiovascular disease, as well. Therefore, the first rule of healing is to eliminate through repentance all forms of aggression towards love.

I am often asked to write a concrete text of repentance. It's impossible. If you upset someone, you will not apologize using notes. They won't believe you. You have given up your love of God, you have suppressed it with anger, condemnation, and depression. Ask God's forgiveness for this. If for some time you think only of the Divine and give up everything that dominates your feelings, consciousness, body, it will be easier for you to overcome any traumatizing situation. The first rule of healing is to learn to keep your love of God in any painful situation, no matter how much your body, spirit or soul suffers. Sometimes this first elementary step is enough to put us in order, physically.

Source:
S N Lazarev, Karma diagnostics, Surviving guide.
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