When the beloved man or woman is placed above God, either relationships do not form, or they break down.

Among the people who love one another, there must be God, they must love God. Then, the more they will love each other, the greater the aspiration to God. In simple words: in human love there must always be a distance, a detachment from the loved one. As one philosopher said: "To love does not mean to look at one another, but to look in the same direction."

Source:
S N Lazarev-Surviving Guide. (book number nine)
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