So, without love and aspiration to God, the soul cannot be saved. And then, for the first time, I saw from my own experience how quickly and surely the body is healing by firstly purifying the soul.
[gets a feeling that death is coming]
- Is it even possible to foresee and prevent anything ?- she was interested.
- It's enough to try, I replied. But for this purpose, you need to understand the cause of your troubles and misfortunes. And I explained to her that all the religions talk about the fact that only God has to be worshipped. From the point of view of Christianity, God means love. If one understands that love is the most important value to have, one never gets rid of it. I explained to the woman that morality and superior feelings are God for her. She praises morality, fairness and she despises dishonest people.

She asked me in astonishment:
- Do you really have to respect them?
I replied that it is necessary to punish such people, we must educate them, but we must not despise them. We are all like the leaves of a tree: on the outside, everything is separate, each being independent, and inside we are all united. The contempt for another represents the desire to kill them, a desire that turns into a self-destruction program.
- You have a lot of judgement against people, accumulated in the soul, I said. In Judaism, crime, thievery, adultery are considered sins ... In Judaism, contempt for a criminal, a bastard, is absolutely normal. But contempt actually kills the soul. In Christianity, judging people and disregarding them are the worst sins. You have to learn to love people, to educate them, and at the same time to punish them and be harsh with them, if necessary.

This woman left the hotel the next day. A car was sent for her to take her to the airport. For completely unknown reasons, in a tunnel, the car was hit at high speed. A serious accident occurred and the car could not be recovered. The woman did not suffer extensive injuries. Those who examined the car said that the passenger (this woman) should have died. It means that she managed to change innerly and her death was replaced with an accident. Giving up on judging people is also a medicine for any one of our souls.

Source:
S N Lazarev-Surviving Guide. (book number nine)

(If you judge people, you have no time to love them - Mother Teresa)
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